While I am a rather poor excuse for a Christian (I like Christmas Trees) with a one way ticket to hell for some matters involving lusting over a bare thigh (in church no less) for which I refuse to ask forgiveness, I am a rather dyed in the wool monogamist.
Namely, pain you will experience later because of decisions you are making right now.
People drag their past in their marriage and future.
Pick an area of your life – debt, unresolved past issues, bad habits, dress, boundaries – and set a goal then list the steps that will put you on a path toward achieving that goal and becoming who the person - the person you’re looking for, is looking for.
Whether you still in the game, or back in a season of looking for the love of your life, this book can help. Fire in its proper context, it’s extremely destructive. If you never been married or are under thirty, even if you have lived with someone you underestimate the complexity of your sexuality and the long-term ramifications of your sexual conduct.
While the material in the discussion guide is intended for use with the video, some of the discussion questions will also reflect content used in the book.
The four video sessions VIDEO CLIPS HERE covering the themes of the book: Overview1 The Right Person Myth2 Gentleman's Club3 Designer Sex4 If I Were You This book is also meant for married couples as well as singles and even for those, like myself not dating but may have grown single children or grandchildren, or for use in the leadership of young adults.
As we all are aware, sex is leveraged to sell just about everything.
Actually the promise of no strings-attached sex with a way above-average-looking person is used to sell just about everything.
As you process the issues and questions surrounding your sexuality and expressions of your sexuality, don’t forget the broader context – sex isn’t just physical.
It’s one component of a multifaceted biological, physiological, and psychological miracle that is you.
When sexuality and chemistry and passion dies – because they are no good at relationships.