For all the moralising in the media about infidelity when stories such as Gayet-gate emerge, the truth is that adultery is often in tune with the "hook up" culture to which modern women are accustomed.Our manufactured outrage and new-found moralism obscures the fact that to a lot of women, an affair seems like quite a sensible proposition.Whilst she has not been strung up by the mainstream French media in the same way that she would have been in Britain, Gayet maintains that she has been dragged into an alleged scandal unfairly and is therefore suing the French edition of Closer magazine. Quite possibly; after all she knows what she's getting herself into.
They probably have kids together and that is the only bond they share.
The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.
This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!
”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
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That's a deal a lot of young women are willing to strike. But I reckon many women don't need a man “full time”. I'll leave you with the comments I gleaned from speaking to some of my twenty-something peers about why they went for married men. "He doesn't borrow my toothbrush or expect me to stay in watching TV because he can't be bothered to go out one weekend.
“There was never a question of him leaving his wife, it was very much 'in the moment'. With an affair you know exactly what you're going to get from a guy and give back in return, and he can't demand any more.
Men act different around their mistresses to around their wives.
I don't want to be a wife.” “These relationships generally fizzle out when I get bored of the guy," added a third friend.
After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side.