So I told her, if you can't break contact yet, at least stay open to the possibility that he is a scammer and if he asks you for money, promise me two things. Let me tell you, it was not easy, but it would have been harder if she hadn't had support from an objective source.First, you won't give it to him and second, to call me so you have the support I know you would need to break contact with him. This was his way of making her feel safe enough to go through with it, even though it wasn't true. A piece of her didn't want to believe he was scamming her. Because he had captured her heart and she really wanted to help him. Let me assure you these women would have said the same thing. Other women have not been so lucky and have lost thousands of their hard earned dollars to men they thought loved them.
Remember the tips I've shared with you and if you're not certain about someone, write to me or share your story with your friends.They are objective and can give you an honest opinion of what they believe is going on. Everything in our culture makes people, and women in particular, feel that after the age of 40, they're no longer sexually attractive, and this belief gets internalized.Then they'll email you copies of contracts to make the deal seem legit and ask you for a loan just until the deal is signed.Once the deal is done, they'll wire your money back to your bank account, they tell you. They Have Excuses For Never Being Able To See You They want to see you so badly and even tell you they are making arrangements to travel in a month or two.You'll hear how they just need a little more money to finish it.
They'll tell you this is all the money the bank will give them and how their family members have invested too.
It makes you perfect prey for scammers looking to hook you into their scams. They Live Outside The US These men will often say they live in metropolitan cities in the US but their work takes them elsewhere in the world. and, of course, to wait for him because he can't wait to meet you. Scamming Women Is Their Job Most of these men are from developing countries. Men there who are willing to con you have learned that in a couple of hours a day, they can easily communicate with women in the US, find their weak spots and make a fortune. They give themselves romantic names like Valentino and Antonio.
They speak with British accents, something American women easily fall for. They will send you pictures of themselves and they're usually drop dead gorgeous. They are often shots of handsome models posing in hats, sunglasses, holding products like beer or wine standing in front of tall buildings in urban landscapes, or posing by expensive cars. What They Talk About As you chat for hours every day, scammers will find your weak spots.
Don't include your surname or any other identifying information such as your place of work either in your profile or when you first make contact.
- Remember that overtly sexual, provocative or controversial usernames could attract the wrong kind of attention. Stay in control when it comes to how and when you share information.
Sure enough, within three days, he told her he was in trouble. The bank needed two more weeks to get all the financing together but he was going to lose the deal if he didn't come up with the money by the end of the week. The scammer had spent hours setting her up for this by connecting with her through beautiful poems and lengthy conversations. They are intelligent, successful women desperate to find the love of their life. I wrote today's post because I don't want to see another woman get taken by these con men again.