Try dealing with these points: The Ex is a bad influence on the children, The ex cheated which meant the relationship ended with severe strain on the children and spouse who was betrayed, sharing children is NEVER a fun thing....think so?Ask any divorced couple how many times the "No I thought YOU were going to take them this weekend and YOU were supposed to pick them up" argument occurs.If you are dating a woman with kids, you probably aren’t doing it just for fun. You’ve got to have the talk.”I bring that up because that is a classic case where a single guy began dating a woman with a child, and had so much to learn and go through.
For example, when at home everyone gets along and does activities together, but in public the child may ignore the step parent and keep a distance.The reason is because being in public is a less frequent occurrence when compared to being at home in private.Her so called husband has already married another woman and that is the reason for the divorce.He abuses her constantly and the marriage was also by force and deceit.Think about it: Those same kids are going to grow up and want to be #1 with their new love interest.
Imagine if they get married and have children and either spouse is # 2, 3, or worse? Keep the nucleus of the family between the parents and the children learn what a health relationship is....balanced with respect and love for the children at all times.
This can be more fun and exciting than watching a professional team.
When at home there will be some new activities that you will enjoy with the kids.
She's great, but i'm really unsure about this situation...
She says she totally loves me, but i don't feel the same. Reply Jackie Pilossoph, I need your guidance desperately.
I am a 30 year old Indian man in love with a woman who is currently undergoing divorce.