(Examples go from lighter to heavier) Remember that these subjects often trigger feelings of shame and defensiveness.Sometimes, you will be met with hesitation and surprise when asking a woman a more intimate question.
You do that by responding with confidence, positivity, and even playfulness. I’d like to think I’m a lot better now.” If you handle her hesitance well, she will usually open up about her sexuality.Here are 3 ways make a woman feel more comfortable if she’s hesitating to answer a sexual question. If you tried one of the above examples and she’s still uncomfortable answering your question, then I wouldn’t broach the subject further during this interaction.“My friend and I just made a bet and we want you to settle it. ” I’d just read some pick-up advice that told me to approach girls in bars with that question. They even began debating each other and trying to argue their viewpoints playfully to me. We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.
Very few women are going to lead it there or say “You can ask me about sex now! With a tipsy grin I shot back, “Oh please, we’re all adults here. I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.Deep down though, women want and desire sex with the right person, just like men.Sexual intimacy is at the core of our psychological needs.She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.