Because young women are definitely way more mature than their male counterparts of their age, yet still youthful enough to question many aspects of their lives, an older man can be foundational in helping to know themselves better, experience love and build a life together that’s based on passionate and mutual love.As game-changing as dating an older man can turn out to be, nothing changes up the dating world quite like online dating.Straightforward and assertive, older men act with intention and focus because they’re usually busy living thriving lives with great jobs they’re passionate about.
Even though this guy and I were 25 years apart, we had a lot in common. I didn't know then that our age gap would define the relationship. I got that; but even though I knew there was no future, I didn’t cut it off completely. After it ended, he talked to a lot of people about our relationship -- and what happened through the grapevine was unexpected. Women judged me as having an ulterior, economic motive: “She just dated him for his money,” or “She thought she could get ahead.” In our society people are so quick to judge a young, naïve woman -- never the older man who perhaps should’ve known better too. We worked in the same profession, had similar interests, and shared common philosophical views. So what if he was wrinkly, in all the places you might expect? There was zero jealousy on both sides, and I never saw him check out another woman -- due to him being satisfied, of course, but also him being well-seasoned in how to respect the opposite sex. Another lesson in dating: a fling with someone in your professional/personal circle is more often than not bad news. I have a friend who’s been married to someone for more than a decade who is 20 years older than her. When a younger woman finds the right older man for her, these foundations can make for a soulmate type of love match.Younger women drawn to older men bring a lot of youth, vibrance and vitality to the relationship.It is a mutually beneficial match that both individuals can experience and can partake of.
Often, younger women tend to be more spontaneous and romantic, which is perfect for the romantic and “old school” older man who knows exactly how to wine, dine and court his lady but also wants to break up the routine and be surprised every now and then.
Texting is fine, I’m not against it, but when it comes to dating and meeting in the beginning, don’t text everything to arrange dating.
Also, for safety sake, many women prefer making the first call.
You’ll never be in an unsure space or gray area when dating an older man because they have neither the time nor the inclination to play games.
Dating an older man also means that there’s more than a modicum of stability and more than simply a “chance” for future talks and long-term commitment.
If the woman offers to call you first, know that she is not afraid of making the first move and doesn’t conform to the traditional old ways.