These activities will help us to not only grow closer with God, but closer to one another as well. Discovering the answers to these questions will give us a glimpse into the fascinating way God has uniquely crafted them, rather than looking at superficial outward appearances alone. Unfortunately, many people in the dating scene today withhold their emotions for a variety of reasons.
However, we’ll never experience the same level of connection with an unbeliever as we would a Christ follower because they share our values, beliefs, and worldview.
In addition, courting other believers creates wonderful opportunities to do spiritual activities together, such as attending church, Christian concerts, reading the Bible, and serving.
Also, when sex is acceptable, many men use women merely for physical gratification, leaving both partners feeling empty and unsatisfied.
Therefore, we must develop a “no sex” policy with the special someone we are courting and commit to spending time with them in public to avoid sexual temptation and to keep our relationship moving in the right direction. The painful truth is that some of our modern day Churches don't even consider the topic important...
Therefore, we should intentionally court other Christians.
Unfortunately, many people compromise this principle because they are unable to find enough Christian singles to date.In her new book, Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus (New York University Press, 2008), Bogle wields the tools of the sociologist, employing in-depth interviews with students and graduates from two unnamed universities -- one a large East Coast public university, the other a smaller Roman Catholic institution in the Northeast -- and placing the culture of hooking up in a historical context.She answered questions via e-mail, shedding light on what she calls the "center of college social life."Q: Your book is a scholarly take on an issue with popular appeal. A: I wrote this book with several audiences in mind, including college administrators, parents and college students.When hearing the term, many have images of their grandparents being chaperoned by their parents with their special someone.In those days, courting was about getting to know your potential partner as much as possible in a safe, pure environment.Therefore, I had to limit the scope of my study in order to be able to draw conclusions about the dominant culture on campus.