You don't have to be a great looker, you certainly don't have to be rich, you don't have to have a big cock, and you don't have to be particularly good in bed: all you need is confidence - the masculine confidence that women want in a man.Even if you just want to go through a "screwing around" phase, the Tao of Badass will get you there.
Any question you've got will be answered within minutes there are so many guys in this community. With so much praise from me, you're probably wondering what's in store for you.I guess it's about time I gave you the lowdown on what you get in the Tao of Badass.You're also more likely to be kind, compassionate, and fun to be around.When you practice , all the energy that was used for judgment, competition and defensiveness can now be used for a better purpose: practicing the loving. So if your best thinking got you here, perhaps it's time to start something new: practice abundance; take the long view; be the change you want to see; and open into even greater loving.Big-heartedness and self-sufficiency, on the other hand, work much better. 'Enlightened' means that you make decisions by considering the long-term consequences of your actions. "I know he's a bad boy, but it'll be so much welfare takes priority, just like in the pre-flight announcement where they say put on your own oxygen mask first, then help others in the case of an emergency. We see this in nature: water runs from high to low; electricity flows between cathode and anode; magnetic force goes between north and south poles. Without polarity, relationships fall flat, whether in heterosexual or same-sex couples: has to wear the pants.
Even the Bible has something to say about that: "For he that hath, to him shall be given: and he that hath not, from him shall be taken away even that which he hath." Seems kind of mean, but it's just the way of the world: wealth begets wealth. Because even if only one thousandth of one percent of the 6.5 billion people in this world are cool enough to be eligible for your companionship, that's, oh, 65,000 folks. To be able to take care of anyone else, you need to take care of you first. As a man, if you take on too much yin, you risk turning into an indecisive wimp, which is not necessarily appealing to women.After three science degrees from Harvard, UCSD and Cambridge, three dissertations, and being a chemistry teaching assistant for three years, I'm soaked in this science stuff like a fish is soaked in seawater.At the same time, nothing has influenced my life quite as much as the principles of Taoist philosophy and Eastern wisdom. Actually, they don't hear it at all.) The thing is, I had no idea why I could only ever be a friend. How my heart sank when she said "Let's just be friends". I went to therapists, I went to 20 or more relationship seminars, I practiced visualization until I glowed with positive energy, I screwed my courage to the sticking place and approached dozens of women here, there and everywhere....He's set up a forum which is now a community full of guys who support each other honestly and positively.These guys are all "Badass-trainees", and they help each other with tips, information, support and the best kind of brotherhood you can imagine.