However you may also be interested in my latest post regarding Turkish men called “My Turkish Love Letter” (November 2013) Turkish Men are once again causing heartache all over the globe.
Every year, thousands of foreign women enter Turkey and strike up a holiday romance.
I feel very depressed and unstable if that makes sense.
I’m not saying to approach your partner with boxing gloves on, ready to fight.
But I am saying that if it looks like a duck, and quacks like a duck: It’s probably a duck.
Speak up, confront the issue head on, and have a conversation about it. Go and have a real conversation about that twisting feeling in your gut.
For all of you that have already checked the cell phone, and that stumbled upon some suspicious text messages or phone calls, I gently say to you wake up. Figure out what’s really going on, and if that twisting feeling won’t go away do not ignore it.
If you’ve checked the phone and there’s nothing there, this is still your issue.
All of it still applies and I stand by what I have written.Stop trying to control the situation and start taking responsibility for what you can control: YOU.Why do you need proof that cheating is occurring to acknowledge that you don’t feel safe in the relationship?If you are dating one of the many Turkish men who break women’s hearts, then don’t call him the love of your life when you live in two different countries.It is what it is, a holiday romance, even if you return six times a year to see him.I actually hadn't realised quite how bad it was till I started taking citalopram and I felt normal! I feel incompetent at my job and I've even started wondering if it's right for me, I'm a teacher and I've always loved my job.